A reward system is used to create a clear image of what behaviors are wanted and acceptable. By using a reward your child wants, it encourages them to continue with good behavior and stop unwanted behaviors. By using a reward system such as a chart, you are implementing positive reinforecment.
Read MoreThe 1-2-3 Magic plan is intended to stop behaviors such as tantrums or yelling. Adjust the plan according to your child's age and then implement it. Decide on a consequence and then follow through with it.
Read MoreYou can not change how your partner reacts to a situation. However, the way you react to them can help avoid defensiveness and stone walling, from Dr. Gottman's "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse". This is done through healhty communication.
Read MoreHealthy communication is not about agreeing on every, it's about putting the pieces back together. Criticism and contempt, from Dr. Gottman's "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse", can be removed by focusing on better ways to talk about problems.
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